I can't add anything to what's already been said. I remember feeling a great sense of, 'who the hell do I ask now?'
That feeling exactly and in my case I did/do wonder if I'll be described as "a gentleman " when my time comes . ( doubt my ex's will say that.)
Genuinely sorry to hear this, never met him, but the way you talked about him and the love and care you had for him on here was obvious over the years.... He had a Coupe Turbo, thus was the Dude - he isn't accountable for your terrible taste in cars. RIP.