I believe the worst thing to say is pull yourself together and snap out of it so....... Pull yourselves together and snap out of it !!
I watched a program last night about Noah. The boy born with spinabifida and a compressed brain. He was developing at an amazing rate and had "regrown" over 85% of his brain. He was also paralysed from the chest down. However he was the happiest little boys and always smiled. It made me cry but almost joyfully because his outlook was so positive. If you've not seen it. Find it and watch it. Amazing and uplifting.