I just met my 14 year old daughters boyfriend....told him if he hurts her I'll come look for him!!! Was that too much??
Nope, I'd say you've let him know where he stands! Eleanor my step daughter has been told similar when she brings them home (she's heading towards 16 btw)
In this day and age, anything can happen. I've got two older sons and said the same to their girlfriends, when I met them lol!
He got off lightly if you ask me. I have two daughters, I'm not looking forward to this phase in their lives, it won't be pretty.
My mate thought it would be funny to be cleaning his shotgun in the kitchen when his daughter brought her boyfriend to meet the parents....He said his daughter didn't laugh
Ha! I've had a bit of this.....top tips time! 1. When you get in and notice the boyfriend has left his shoes in the hall, walk in, and before you are introduced, tell him he has Marmitee shoes, whilst looking him in the eye... 2. When the nervous laughter stops, tell him he is sitting in your chair. 3. When he gets up and moves to another chair, tell him you were just about to sit there. 4. If one turns up to take your daughter out, and he is driving a chav mobile, ask him if he knows who you are.....then, reach in the window, take his ignition keys out, and throw them as far as you can (it's handy if you have a field next to your road), before explaining who you are, and that while he is looking for his keys, it might be prudent to remember to drive slowly, and not like a cock with your daughter in the car. We never saw the last one again :0) And we don't talk about that incident........ If all else fails, I've heard that if you put them in the back of a little kangoo, and take them for a drive round Epping forest for a bit, their attitude changes nicely....!
I'd encourage them to be knobbers if that's what they are....better kids work through a few and find a good fit rather that fall for the first one who might be a ***** to her when you aren't there.
When the Eldest Unmarried came home with the first " boyfriend " I was (totally coincidentally ) cleaning my hunting gear when he was brought out to meet me. I warned him that I knew how to use the equipment on the table and also knew people who would ensure his body never turned up or could be traced back to us should he hurt Lucy.
