I hate it when people say it Its worse when you suffer from depression and someone says your just wallowing in self pity
Is all I can say is that some things in life are bad and can really make you mad, other things just make you swear and curse, so when your chewing on life's gristle don't grumble give a whistle and this will help things turn out for the best.
i always cheer up, i am meek and do as instucted i am now very cheery and do indeed know half of my close friends are worse off then me.
don't be daft dave, i took it as a joke, that's why i added the marmite bit, chill nobody would ever think you was a stirrer.
Tbh when chips are down words are often not enough no matter how good their intention. What's important is having the knowledge that people are around you that you can turn to when needed.