I'm living in a bloody war zone

Can you afford to put her in a travelodge for a few days, give everyone a bit of breathing space?
Can you point out to the good lady that even if you did give your tenants notice they have rights and can't leave tomorrow by the time notice was served a month would have passed, it's really not a short term solution.
Has smeghead got previous and has any action been taken against him? Kent Police took the decision away from the injured party and prosecute if a complaint is made with evidence of physical violence.
Space and support, for all, that includes you. post on here or PM me or any of the folks that you actually know. its impereritive to unload your thoughts, woes and troubles.
It's true that a problem shared is a problem halved.

 

Its full of migrants all ready, don't you read the print media?

 

and they're more French than the French when it comes to dealing with les rosbif....

 

I think you've made some very valid points about the reasons for her behaviour.

She stopped in mid rant and without saying a word climbed up onto my lap for a cuddle and a little cry.

 

Gobbing off on here about something private and personal is not really my style but it was that or rampage around the house smashing things in anger.

Surprisingly writing here and the warm, helpful replies and PM's have really helped. So, thank you my TLB friends.

 

Make her sleep on the drive in your bus.

Keep the rotty.

 

I will be billing you for my advice @sANDYbAY

 

Its surprising how much of a catharsis it can be just being able to get how you are feeling out somewhere even if it is on here - its inevitable with so many members you get a supportive response from others who have experienced similar or just want to help, hope things work out for the best for all those involved (with the exception of the marmitehead partner who will hopefully get what they deserve)

 

show her the door she l soon work it out that she needs you more than she thinks , you have to be cruel to be kind

 

Sorry to hear @sANDYbAY hope you sort it out.

 

Sorry ta hear this bob , i fink theirs sumink in the moons at the mo , they all seem ta be at it . Knowone can tell you what to do , but my advise would be is try and stay calm , fanning the flames dont help , its all emotions fa you" all at the mo", risky stuff emotions !!!. They will be looking fa someone ta blame , think back ,we all did it , we made um too. Stay calm bud just give it a year or so to calm down . Yeh and talk n vent to people who dont matter not family or mods .

 

Reward her??? I think not!

 

Cheers Barny, everything's calm and happy at the moment so....just wait for the next one I suppose.

 

He forgot to add "not family or mods, present company excepted".

 

please re read it infeeeerz you matter init

 

we are the third party...

I told you lot children are a pain in the arse ,you can never win...

Bob ,you ever thought to vexing your fustration on the boyfriend ,he would be my first port of call ...

@poptop2 you cannot go anywhere in your "sorn " campers...

 

This is probably going to be a long term issue mate. My advice is to keep a diary. You might want to show it to her one day so she can see how it has affected you. That would hit home much more than telling her at the time.

 

Merlincat matters to me Barn, and so do you, in fact I love ALL of my imaginary friends.