Well with my hand in my heart its been bad very bad before lock down. Its rubbish i don't know what to say but my Son is all i care about and that is all that i care about. I was asked to leave the house i built and made a home though no fault of my own. So i did, sleeping in my Van and friends house's I'm a bit shell socked to be honest. So ill be single after 28 year's of marriage that's that. Good had enough of it to be honest. I never thought i would be hear after all the S@@@ i've experience in my life. Wish everyone love, happiness and good fortune. As for me i'm thinking of moving back to Northumberland Maybe Geord x.
Hope you are ok Chief. I’ve been through it, imagine a good few on here have too. It’s magnificently sh*t for a lot of the time...but not all if the time and certainly not forever. Hang in there, it does get better it really does.
Sorry to hear that Andy. Hope you’re ok. Generally time is a great healer and you will get through all the poo and feel happy again. now go and get finishing your stone house xx
Speaking from experience , presently your feeling like Marmitee ,full of confusion and hate...give yourself time to calm down before saying anything that will make the situation worse.you will find that life will get better,always be there for your son,never put your Mrs down either in front of him or directly to him ,it's not his fault .This time next year will be better.
Andy Wishing you all the best in difficult times. Surround yourself with friends and you'll get through this.
Sorry to hear of your problems, been there twice....don't give up on life and try and stay strong for your son. Things will get better.
Sorry to hear this Andy but I have no doubt you’ll bounce back. That doesn’t help how you feel now but moving on will do x
Mate, I dont know you, but I'm in the same situation, but maybe a bit further down the line......im now due to retire from the fire service and as I live in a fire service house, I'm going to be homeless, and jobless soon, with the possibility of my pension being frozen u til they work out how much of it she will rape from me. I'm still bitter, but I've passed the 'limbo' stage that you are probably in right now. None of this was my fault either, and I have been lied about to all and sundry, and am virtually Peter Sutcliffe, if you listen to her version of events. My kids are older, but I am wracked with guilt about messing up their easy life, and my son is in his final weeks of training to be a police officer, he doesn't need the disruption. There's a lot more to the story, but its irrelevant now......stay positive, its not easy, and I know I had three months of not knowing what day it was and just walking the dogs randomly, but concentrate on yourself First, the kids second......it sounds harsh, but kids are resilliant and will be fine. On the plus side, I know that I will be happy again one day, while I know that her diamonds will never be sparkly enough. And I met a new lady, who has proved to me that they aren't all the same, some actually like the same things as you and are more like your best mate. Get yourself on the computer dating.....! It wasn't even a thing when I was last single, but its a revelation!
Sorry to hear all this Andy, and sorry that it’s making you sad. We all need friends, and you have a lot here. Take care of yourself, and keep going with that fab house..... it’ll keep you occupied and keep you going. A wise person once said ‘this too shall pass’. It will x