Its meant to be from the the blue wire with the chocolate block hanging down. TBH, the bin is the right answer or over-the fence. Fit a spade on the blue wire, does that wander off to a split charge relay coil wire by any chance ? Put an end on which has a male and female spade, put the blue wire onto the tag at the front of the alternator( towards front of car) , put a female spade on the split charge relay wire and stuff that on the male part of the blue wire connnector. And do it with a proper ratchet crimp tool not one of those flat and painful pliers type abortions provided by all the usual suspects. On ebay from £8 upwards.