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  1. Poptop2

    Poptop2 Administrator

    Such a shame mate. Are you sure you can't just have a day or two at Eddies and go sort it?:(

    :)Best of luck whatever you .do!

    Save us an hook up if you're still there for techenders.
     
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  2. rickyrooo1

    rickyrooo1 Hanging round like a bad smell

    i don't want to sound like a tit here but noone can force you out of your home even if your mrs is being a pain in the ass or whatever this must be your choice to go? when i got divorced years ago my solicitor told me under no circumstances to leave the family home and quote "sit on your hands if you have to but as long as you don't lay a finger on her you can't be forced to leave" also should you decide you have to leave there must be a family member who will help? if not get down citizens advice and find out your rights, noone has to be homeless - you can choose to be but there is always somewhere.
     
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  3. Thank you so much for advice and support, I will be giving Eddie a ring in the next couple of days. I have a TLB member put me up on there drive way for a couple of days. Just until I put me head together :thinking:. There is help out there when you think straight, but at this minute in time I cant think straight and am in shock or was just thoughtless. Will see you at Techenders were any donation will be welcome, a single women to keep me warm would be a good donation with no come backs lol. Seriously though I do thank everyone for your support at this crap time in life. I know from experience that things do get better after the low.
     
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  4. MorkC68

    MorkC68 Administrator

    Hope it works out for you buddy, I don't know what to say other than what everyone else has said.

    It does get better though, it really does (although it doesn't seem like it at the time)!

    All the best to you though
     
  5. So sorry to hear of your problem - hope you manage to get a place sorted out - good luck.
     
  6. I can only wish you the best of luck mate.
     
  7. Poptop2

    Poptop2 Administrator

    So, What has brought this on Mate?

    I feel for you.

    Haven't we all been in a similar situation? life is tough, the money is tight, you're arguing with your partner, the kids are driving you nuts, and there outside the window is the camper, a release from the pressure bowl,the answer to our problems, safety in the cocoon of ones own company, a place where our own thoughts and needs are the only concern we have. a place of security and exclusion where we can mend ourselves.

    Knowing my luck, the battery would be flat. Eh oh, back to the grind!

    I am just presuming this is how it has gone. I hope it isn't much more, and that bit of time alone will mend things. :)
     
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  8. http://www.relate.org.uk/
    Give these guys a ring....they deal with issues like this 24/7. Don't think that you have to deal with it on your own. In times of crisis, there's nothing better than to talk to someone, offload your concerns and get some practical help and advice....when you're in the thick of it, it's virtualy impossible to have any sort of perspective. An attentive listener is called for IMO.
    Best wishes for the future...things will turn round....just don't try going it alone...a 'phone call costs nothing in the scheme of things, and could well set you on the right path

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  9. How are you doing today? Keep talking... do not bottle it up
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  10. The hardest bit of advice to take is what everyone's giving you, always look on the bright side of life. Seems stupid and impossible sometimes but that's the key to it, life's a turd sometimes, effin impossible even but keeping strong and your spirits up will get you through it and smiling at that!

    If you find yourself on Anglesey, give me a call, there's always a cuppa and a hot curry at chez Colin
     
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  11. Got myself down to Relate and we are setting a meeting up to chat things through and to see what options there is. Thank you for the many offers and support
    my TLB Friends. This is like a bit of sunshine in the dark and if it wasn't for your support and reply's it would of bean a lot darker. Will keep you posted :theforce:
     
  12. thats good news....:thumbsup:
     
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  13. Sorry to hear of your troubles , but you are never on your own when you can talk TLB style , .knowing that there is a problem and doing something about it is the first step
     
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  14. I'm sorry that I am not in a position to help. Best wishes to you, and keep your chin up. I am sure there will light come from the dark and something will bring a smile to your face soon.
     
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  15. Be honest.....and Best wishes:thumbsup:
     
  16. Really sorry to hear your news, difficult times I can understand that. Hope you get something sorted and be careful. :(
     
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  17. Merlin Cat

    Merlin Cat Moderator

    Good luck, hope it works out best for both of you.
     
  18. Very true, and without wanting to throw out lots of cliche's, things are never as bad as they appear. Good luck and be strong fella. You're never alone in here...:)
     
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  19. well done ,things might work out...:hug:
     
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