I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision. I've suspected for some time now that my Mrs has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my Mrs. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch. Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself? Cheers
I went round my local pet shop, asked the fella there how much he charged for his wasps... he tells me he doesnt sell wasps! Well I says you got them in the winda... boom boom circa 1957
Dont confront your wife, just lend her the car and claim off the insurance when she damages it trying to park ......
Time to confront and sort things out I'm afraid... We all have a suspicious mind but I think it sounds a tad ominous I'm afraid ( Been there and got the t shirt ) Ask her face to face ..you'll read her like a book ...go from there
Yes I agree with @Dazza time to confront her and ask the truth, no idea your worried about rust when your Mrs could be potentially having an affair?
oh my god, just before Christmas as well, I hope you kept the receipts for her Christmas presents, get your money back and spend it on filler and paint for the car, put the house on the market, change your job and look for a new lady, get married maybe have children, some people on here thought you was joking but not me,I'm not thick
My wife just asked me what would be worse her having an affair or finding rust on the camper apparently " I can always find a new wife " was the wrong answer
Lots of folks on here would have experienced what you are going through. I had the same experience. We are a helpful lot on here but do you have a friend to talk it over with and give you some support. That would be best for you. Please don't go stalking your wife when she goes out or crouching behind your car as it won't help the situation and will hurt you even more. You may get yourself into a nasty situation, don't go there. I did that and its stupid. Keep cool and calm. Be pleasant and polite to her. You could try going to Relate on your own to get help and advice. Advice and support is what you are needing now. When the thing happened to me, I had to grow up and realise that a couple is just two people and being married is not wife ownership but only a financial contract. Your think your wife may be having an affair, but she may not be in the way you are thinking, women are complicated, us chaps are just cavemen and like a simple life. Now is the time to watch the money as I discovered too late that my ex had squirreled away a lot before she left. Go easy.