wow what a few weeks, update is am back home we are speaking with relate and a Christian organisation. I cant name names but a BIG THANK YOU to the TLB couple who put me up for these nights and have given me support and wisdom. They know who they are so thank you again Also a big thank you for you guys and girls for the support and wisdom lol. xxxxxx and if anyone gets in trouble and needs someone to talk to, then post it up on TLB and you will find friends you didn't know you had.